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How We Choose to Show Up Author Talk
July 21 @ 5:30 pm – 6:30 pm
DATE CHANGE: Thank you for understanding that this event is now scheduled for Monday, July 21. It was previously scheduled for Wed, July 30.
Join Marcy Axelrod, bestselling-award-winning local author and 2X TEDx speaker, for a talk in the Nature Center to discuss her groundbreaking book How We Choose to Show Up. In her book, Axelrod reveals the invisible system connecting us to ourselves, others, and society – and how it shapes leadership, relationships, and meaning – all while taking care of the world and each other. Drawing from twenty years of research in psychology, neuroscience, and evolutionary biology, Axelrod offers a practical framework for how to Truly Show Up with greater ease. Books will be available for purchase and signing. This bestselling author wrote part of her book right here in Quogue!
$15 per person, light refreshments and wine included. Profits benefit Quogue Wildlife Refuge!
Refund Policy: Program tickets are non-refundable unless we, Quogue Wildlife Refuge, cancel the program due to weather or other unforeseen circumstances. If you decide to cancel, your class fee will be donated to support our mission driven work at the Quogue Wildlife Refuge.


Every day we have a choice:
• Do we “Just Show Up,” improvising as we go, phoning in our intentions?
• Do we “Truly Show Up,” living decisive moments with intent?
• Or are we “Barely There,” struggling to Show Up at all?
Showing Up is the invisible system all around us, connecting us to our Society, Situations, Selves, and each other. And it’s a contact sport. It’s how we lead, whether parenting, coaching, playing, empowering one another, or steering a global company.
Showing Up orients us toward a meaningful life.
Marcy Axelrod explains this truth clearly and profoundly in How We Choose to Show Up. Through twenty years of research and pragmatic examples, she reveals the framework to Truly Show Up more often and with greater ease. At once simple and life changing, readers will deepen their self-grounding, social readiness, and societal connectedness. Understanding what it means to Truly Show Up leads us to relate more human-to-human, inspiring greater health, competence, and confidence. We then infuse this richness into our families, businesses, economy, and the health of our planet.
Drawing from psychology, neuroscience, and evolutionary biology, this is the crucial playbook for leading an impactful, high-achieving life—all while taking care of the world and each other.
